We may claim freedom and yet consistently return to the scenes of our perceived victimization. We may believe it necessary to do so for the benefit of those to whom we feel an obligation to warn and to protect. That might certainly be so, but at times, revealed is the absence of healing within, bitterness, and unforgiveness.
The true witness is not found in the recitations of long held grievances but in the Joy of deliverance and wholeness in Christ today. It is more important that we invite others to focus, not on the sorrows of our upbringing, but, on the joys of our out bringing. The Lord is indeed our healer. Always emphasize the better part of your life story.
He has given me a new song to sing, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see what he has done and be amazed. They will put their trust in the Lord.